Sexual Obsession

Anonymous said: I'm a 16 girl who is 5'8, I hate my height & don't go to homecoming because wearing heels will make me look like huge.

There’s nothing wrong with wearing flats, although I’m sure you look magnificent in heels. ;) AND flats are much more comfortable than heels for sure, so while all the other girls are trying to be cute and tall, you’re already both and you won’t get tired as fast as they will with heels, remember that!
-Minerva.

Anonymous said: it wouldn't be hypocritical though - adults, even one who is 18 need to know better than to get involved in something illegal for their benefit and for the minor. so it's not on you and while not being judgemental def is good, you can still be critical and point out important things like this without being judgemental or mean or anything :) illegal is illegal and the safety of those younger than is always most important!

Indeed. And let’s not forget CONSENT. I mean, obviously the age for someone to give consent is different in every country and state, and even though I believe adults over 18 should not lie down with any minor, I do believe that consent from the other person is completely important and consent from both people to agree or wait for a better time is essential and important as well. Although, when I was asked the initial question, I didn’t take it as if she was immediately thinking about sex, which is why I didn’t bring it up, but I do thank you anon for caring about our followers. Also, it’s really important to educate people correctly about sex and relationships so that underage persons as well as adults can make the right decisions and be mature and correct about them.
-Minerva.

Anonymous said: Do guys like it when you keep suckin even after they cum?

Let me as you this, “Do you like to keep sucking after a guy cums? Yes? Is it because you ASKED the guy and heard his point of view?” Remember, I can’t answer for your partners! Communicate with them and whatever makes them happy, if your’re comfortable doing it, then it’ll also make you happy.
-Minerva.

Anonymous said: i just want to say to that 15 year old anon that the most important thing is that she is underage, a minor and anything that happens with him can lead to trouble for both involved. and, nothing against the 15 year old, but a 19 year old showing interest is a little skeevy so PLEASE be careful

Yes yes yes, BUT even though I know she’s underage and she should be careful where things lead, I don’t judge her for liking or being attracted to him. Why? Because personally, my first boyfriend was 18 and I 15. How hypocritical will I be? BUT I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH HER BEING CAREFUL!
-Minerva.

Anonymous said: hey, i'm 15 and i kind of like this guy that is 19 but i only see him every couple of weekends when i stay with my sister in her share house and he stays over on weekends. i think he kind of likes me back because we were watching a movie on the couch and he started cuddling me and he also hinted at going to the movies with him once. but he likes another girl at the moment but she doesn't want to date until she finishes year 12, but they're not honest with eachother and shit, what do i do?

Maybe he tells you he likes this other girl to make you jealous, but always be warry. If he likes her and is trying to be with you, that means he doesn’t know how to be alone and is just looking for someone to be available for him when he needs it. I could definitely be wrong and like I said, maybe he says these things to see if you make a move, so be very careful. He may act your age, but he is older. There may be things he wants to do or thinks differently of than you.

-Minerva.

Anonymous said: I'm pregnant, and horny majority worth of the time its just dome of the positions that use to feel good, kind of hurt. What do you recommend?

I haven’t had pregnancy sex because I haven’t been pregnant or haven’t had a conversation about sex with a pregnant friend, so I’m not the best person to ask, sorry. BUT even if it’s weird, ask your doctor (if you’re comfortable/or if he/she is cool and you don’t feel awkward hahaah)! Also, you can look online for pregnancy sex positions or look for books? 

-Minerva.